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2009-12-25细水长流

分类：彩色棒棒糖时间：2009-12-25 22:06:47作者：shirley

标签：五颜六色细水长流

细水长流
曾经的轰轰烈烈让我不堪重负，当然我也没有想到过要怎样才能让感情的保质期延长。

现在我懂了，真正的爱情，只是两个人的感觉，其实从我们交往之初，就已经确定了我们的感情类型-细水长流型。

两个人在一起的时候感觉心态很平和，聊天的时候轻言细语，因为我们的心很近，不需要很大声。偶尔一起做晚饭，一起打扫房间，一起逛超市，一起看电影，一起给双方父母电话。。。所有的一起都让人觉得幸福。其实幸福也就这么简单！

我有一个坏习惯，心情不好的时候会写几句，而心情好的时候什么都不写。这个我一定改，因为我应该把幸福的时刻记录下来，用来以后回忆。我可不希望自己以后只有些痛苦或不开心的事情遗留下来！

皮皮是一个很好的人，心态好，做事积极上进，思想很前卫，只是性格稍微内敛了一点。

他会时不时地给我来点小惊喜，比如在很一般的日子送上小小一束花，虽然他不喜欢在情人节这种大家都过的节日里随潮流送花什么的，但是我每天都在过情人节啊！

从我们异地恋开始，我们就再没有存过钱，虽然过得“清贫”，但是却很开心，感情也维持的很好。我时不时地飞上海玩一圈，上海周边城市玩一圈，虽然很累（我觉得周末出去旅游很累），但是却在每个我们去过的地方留下了开心的印记。

在6月底我准备休假前的一个周末，他骗我说周末要加班早睡了，结果清晨的急促敲门声惊醒了睡梦中的我，原来是他，他坐了一晚上的硬座（貌似还没有座位）过来就为了在我离开重庆之前给我一个惊喜，带着红玫瑰来向我求婚。。

他会在我不知情的情况下预定某些娱乐的票，等着下次带我去玩，等等等等。其实生活中时不时有惊喜就够了，不论大小都可以让感情升温的。

每次我碰上烦心事，他都会以很积极的一面来开导我鼓励我，以免我气坏了自己不说事情还得不到解决。。他不会盲目地迁就我，该我自己做的事情他绝对不会帮我做了，这是对我好，不然我会变成彻彻底底的白痴。

天冷的时候我会肆无忌惮地在他身上取暖，虽然他冷得叫，但是还是会让我取暖，当然反过来的话没门儿！

2009年圣诞节是我们在成都的第一个圣诞节，刚好是周四，对他们公司而言周二周四是绝对加班的日子，但是他毅然回来陪我吃晚饭，虽然我回来的比他还晚。。。这也让我觉得好暖。

他还偶尔做牛排给我吃，坚持每天晚上都给我榨豆浆。。。。

好多好多事情哦，写都写不完。。

这就是我们的故事，我们的感情就这样慢慢的持续地升温着，不是很轰烈，但是却幸福地感人。

曾经部门聚会的时候我说过一句话：“我们会一辈子热恋的。”我相信我们会的！

2009-12-23一个人的晚餐

分类：BLUE时间：2009-12-23 19:07:52作者：shirley

当初，为了两个人在一起，毅然离开了一群常一起晚餐的朋友们。

而今，两个人终于在一起了，晚餐却常常是孤独一人。

一个人的晚餐，时而在外随便整点，时而回家自己煮泡面，生活就是如此？

2009-12-23职工养老保险明年起可跨省转接: 分类：彩色棒棒糖时间：2009-12-23 18:59:59作者：shirley; 标签：红色; 职工养老保险明年起可跨省转接
http://news.163.com/09/1222/17/5R5F2J21000120GU.html

太好了，养老保险可以跨省转接了，就不会那么麻烦，自己来回两次办理了！
但是不知道我这种情况可不可以这样办理呢！

2009-11-26感恩节: 分类：彩色棒棒糖时间：2009-11-26 19:13:14作者：shirley; 标签：五颜六色; 感觉今天真的很幸运呢，谢谢妈妈，谢谢婆婆，谢谢大智，谢谢澄部伙伴，谢谢建行伙伴！

2009-11-11The 25 Most Common Dream Symbols: 分类：英语学习时间：2009-11-11 20:46:14作者：shirley; 标签：dream symbol; The 25 Most Common Dream Symbols

These symbols are the twenty-five most requested symbols in dream psychology (listed in alphabetical order). Their interpretations are meant as starting points and will vary in their meaning depending upon the individual dreamer. See dream dictionary for specific symbols.

1.Animals - Instinctive part of self attuned to nature and survival (survival in the social world). Animals sometimes represents one's parents, especially their relationship to a parent (love, hate, etc.). Being chased by an animal may represent some repressed emotion or aggression. Look at the particular animal to determine the symbol it may represent.

2.Baby - may symbolize vulnerability, or your need for love. Also your pure, innocent, true self (other than the ego). It may represent some new development in your life. A baby commonly appears in the dreams of pregnant women and may be a straightforward expression of pregnancy.

3.Clothes - Clothes may represent your persona, how you look at yourself and how you feel others may see you. Old and worn out clothes mat symbolize anxiety about your attractiveness or you need to discard some habitual way of thinking.
Changing your clothes may indicate a change in your lifestyle (past, present or future). Clothes in a dream being worn by someone else may suggests that there is some part of you that you relate to in that particular person. See naked listed below.

4.Cross - Represents perfect balance (as in the Christ within or Buddha consciousness). It may be a symbol for a crossroads in your life or a burden to heavy to carry. It also may be a symbol of death, something coming to an end in your life (relationships, job, change of lifestyle, etc).

5.Death - Death or dying in a dreath most often represents changes in one's life, something is coming to an end. Very seldom does death symbolize true dying of a person. The old is dying and with the death of the old comes new beginnings. The death and resurrection of Christ is a good example in mythology of the death motif. What it represents is the death of the egoself and its resurrection to a spiritual realization.
A dead person in a dream may relate to past relationships with that particular person. If the dead person is you then consider your true condition as you see it, I feel dead because of my job, life, relationships, etc. Or death may simply represent your anxiety about dying.

6.Falling - Falling - May represent your real life fear of letting go of something or someone. It also may suggest a loss of controlin a situation. Self-inflation is another possibility. Are you above yourself and due a fall?

7.Food - Food represents knowledge. Physically food nourishes the body. Mentally knowledge nourishes the mind, thus the old adage of "food for thought".

8.Devil - Evil spirits, not necessarily religious. It may represent some repressed emotions that need to be expressed. It may symbolize a need to change one's behaviour (devilish) and find a spiritual center.

9.Hair - Represents knowledge, most often conscious knowledge (or the lack of). Abubdant hair may signify virility or male sexuality (Freud). Cutting hair may symbolize los of virility, or castration. Loss of hair may express a fear of getting old or being unwanted.

10.Hands - Symbolize ability, particuraly practical and social abilities. Tied hands represent a feeling of an inability to succeed in a particular endeavor. Washing your hands often symbolizes guilt- what are you trying to get rid of?

11.House - A symbol representing yourself. The rooms or different floors may represent emotions, attitudes, complexes, ideas. Going upstairs symbolizes conscious thinking. The basement represents the deep unconscious.

12.Killing - May represent repression/suppression of some aspect of yourself - you want or need to kill that part of your personality. May indicate hatred or envy between siblings or hostility towards some person. Also putting an end to negative feelings or unwanted situations in one's life.

13.Marriage - A blending of intellectual and intuitive parts or masculine and feminine aspects of oneself. A bridge between the conscious mind and the unconscious self (as in dreams).

14.Money - Represents one's values in life. May symbolize self worth. In exchanging money, it may represent changes about to happen in your life. Take note of any numbers and find their meaning(s). For instance, five often symbolizes changes in life.

15.Mountain - Climbing a mountain may symbolize achievements or tasks to be performed. Looking from a mountain may symbolize your life under review, without the conscious emotional involvement (dreams looks at your life without prejudgicies). A mountain may represent obstacles in your life.

16.Naked - Being nude may symbolize the 'naked truth' about oneself. Totally open and exposed. It may be an expression for childhhood innocence and freedom from artifical inhibitions. Showing off your nudity may be a desire for sex, or a desire for recognition.

17.People - Most often represents the different aspects of oneself; emotions, attitudes, desires, fears, etc. look to the particular characteristics of a person or persons in the dream.

18.Radio - Communication between conscious and unconscious self (as in dream). Communications (or lack of) between aspects of self or between persons in your life.

19.Roads - Your direction in life, the road you are following (may need changing or modifications). Patterns in your life, something that you continually do that may be harmful or unnecessary. Goals in life. ehat is your path in life?

20.School - Lessons in life. Self understanding is learning to know yourself (psychological). Life's experiences. Have you learned from them or do you ignore what is evident for what is convenient?

21.Sex - Sex with a partner may symbolize a unification of unconscious aspects in your life to a conscious realization. Uniting parts of oneself that was previously separated due to repression/suppression. May be a straight forward desire for sex. Uninhibited sex may suggest one's actual persona is uninhibited.

22.Teacher - A symbol for your higher self (spiritual or creative). Insights that show you the way on your path.

23.Teeth - Assimilating of knowledge (unconscious) so to understand and make use of it.Losing teeth symbolizes change in one's way of thinking. Also symbolizes a fear of getting old. May symbolize aggression.

24.Vehicles - A symbol representing yourself. Are you driving (in control), in the back or passenger seat (not in control). Is your mother driving? Perhaps she has too much control of your life. A bus may symbolize yourself and the passengers aspects of your personality.

25.Water - Water represents the unconscious self (mind). Pools of water, lakes, rivers, symbolize the personal unconscious, whereas oceans and seas represent the deeper collective (universal) unconscious.

2009-9-4告别CALM: 分类：FREE STYLE时间：2009-9-4 11:32:02作者：shirley; 标签：工作;         今天是我在CALM的最后一天，其实什么事情都没有，就想待着！和他们再待一天，再吃一次公司美味的工作餐。。。。
        很感谢CALM的一切，谢谢老总体系的各位，不管是工作上还是生活上都给了我很多好的帮助和建议，让我觉得踏入社会开始工作是如此好，如此和谐，并没有勾心斗角，给社会予以全新定义！
        感谢wy，陪我度过每一个日日夜夜，在我伤心的时候给我安慰，在我无助的时候给我关怀，信任我，鼓励我。
        感谢YA，LZD，CXH等，让我不至于那么孤独，至少还能经常一起聚聚，一起唱歌。
        从今以后我将在成都重新开始我的人生，我要重新规划我的人生道路，我会好好过的！也希望CALM的朋友们好好过。
       再见，CALM! 再见，我爱的重庆！

2009-8-22超可爱血型性格图解: 分类：星座时间：2009-8-22 12:28:30作者：shirley; 标签：血型 A型 B型 O型 AB型; 20 00:31版面封ID 全局封ID

2009-8-12火星泄露他的性趣——怎样看星盘（七）: 分类：星座时间：2009-8-12 16:34:24作者：shirley; 标签：火星性趣; 火星代表着原始的欲望，通过观察火星处于什么星座，可以一窥对方的性趣。
火星处于白羊座：精力旺盛，性致勃勃。
火星处于金牛座：持久战的高手
火星处于双子座：喜欢猎艳
火星处于狮子座：精力充沛，占有欲强
火星处于处女座：疲……弱
火星处于天秤座：体贴入微
火星处于天蝎座：爆发力强，富有斗志
火星处于射手座：活力四射
火星处于魔羯座：自我克制，欲望却过人
火星处于水瓶座：冷淡+疏离=？
火星处于双鱼座：喜欢营造气氛

2009-8-12金星的爱情密码——怎样看星盘（六）: 分类：星座时间：2009-8-12 16:31:53作者：shirley; 标签：金星爱情; 歌德说：哪个少年不多情？哪个少女不怀春？爱情，是伊甸园里亚当与夏娃的相遇，是潇湘妃子的眼泪，是你我睫毛上不忍拂去的一片雪花。
在十大星体中，金星掌管着爱情。它落入的星座暗示着我们在爱恋方面具有的能量与呈现方式。
金星落入白羊座的人，对待爱情主动而直接，有时甚至于冲动。他们的爱情口号是：进攻、进攻、再进攻！不过，爱的持久力比较差，容易厌弃对方。
金星落入金牛座的人，对待爱情趋于保守，也不愿太过冒险地追求心上人。如果爱上了，他们会要求自己和对方都要做到对爱的坚贞。
金星落入双子座的人，很容易被才华横溢的人打动，他们的爱像一阵风，来得快也去的快，需要不断有新鲜的刺激源，所以情史往往能写一部书，可惜雷同的情节太多。
金星落入巨蟹座的人，一方面向往伟大的爱情故事一方面又犹豫不决，生怕自己沦为那个被抛弃的主人公。他们的爱情，少不了一味叫做“猜忌”的佐料，一不留神，佐料放多了，整盘菜的味道就变了，只好倒掉/
金星落入狮子座的人，崇尚爱就要轰轰烈烈死去活来，为了爱人，他们还不惜赴汤蹈火！
金星落入处女座的人，不是不想恋爱，可是他们对爱有苛刻的标准，总是没完没了地考验对方，常会让对方觉得很累。
金星落入天秤座的人，对爱的潜台词是：大家都爱我吧，我也爱你们大家。他们需要很多很多的爱，自己也竭力做到对每个人都很公平。可惜，爱情是排他的。他们的这种方式会惹怒了对方，最后不欢而散。
金星落入天蝎座的人，要么爱，100%地爱；要么不爱，100%地不爱。对于爱上的人，他们毫不犹豫，也不轻言放弃，但一旦放弃了，就不可能破镜重圆。
金星落入射手座的人，追求超越世俗的爱情，希望书写爱的神话。他们一方面喜欢华美的爱，一方面又很愿意享受对方的身体给自己带来的愉悦。在大家中，他们很花心。事实上，他们的确很花心。
金星落入摩羯座的人，他们渴望爱情是建立在现实的土壤上，而且是房屋、钞票构筑的沃土之上。这样，他们才能轻松地呼吸到空气中爱的味道。
金星落入水瓶座的人，好像不大容易沉湎于爱情之中，他们会用左脑左眼左手去恋爱，右脑右眼右手做别的，啥也不耽误。
金星落入双鱼座的人，具有丰富的感情与感受力，对方的点点滴滴都会让他们心软心动，完全地奉献出自己。